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Divorce Mediation
Divorce mediation is a voluntary process that a married couple may enter into to assist them with the finalization of their marriage.

   History
Traditionally when a married couple decided to end their union, there were only a limited number of options available:
    A. If the couple had minor children and marital assets, they would each retain an attorney and have their respective attorney hammer out a divorce (marital) settlement agreement. This agreement would then be presented to the family court judge for an adjudication of an order of divorce. However this option usually turns out to be adversarial, very costly and drawn out. Each party to the divorce must retain their separate attorney. Also this option creates a bad relationship between the couple, who are usually still tied to each other after the divorce. Couples with children tend to suffer the most emotional damage, using this method. Studies have shown that there are no real winners in ending your marriage in this manner. This is not to say that there is never a good reason for a divorcing couple to hire an attorney. However a couple should always consider mediation as the softer approach to divorce.
   B. Alternatively if the couple did not have minor children ... and no real marital assets ... and were not seeking any sorts of spousal support ... then they could, all on their own (pro se) petition the courts for the ending of the marriage. We have seen many happy divorced individuals who have exercised this option.

However modernly the Florida courts have embraced the use of Mediators in this area of family law. With the use of a Certified Mediator the divorcing couple would craft an agreeable end to their marriage (marital settlement agreement), work out issues of spousal support (alimony), parenting plans (visitation) and complete statutory child support calculations for the continued support of their minor children.

But before the advent of divorce mediation, the process of divorce was an emotional, time consuming, and very costly endeavor on the part of the divorcing couple.

   How Does Divorce-by-Mediation Actually Work?
First we believe that mediation is emotionally and financially the best way for a couple to obtain a divorce. Divorce-by-Mediation is a win-win for all parties concerned. The fees are small and the process is relatively quick and emotionally rewarding. Also we have streamlined the process, so that there are no unanswered questions or fees surprises.

A divorce by mediation typically requires three to four sessions with the Mediator. The complexity of the issues will dictate the number of sessions. Let me assure you that the process is confidential (protected by Florida Statute) and emotionally fulfilling.
Here the parties are usually pro se (representing themselves) and have not retained attorneys. Each mediation session is approximately one and a half to two hours long. In these sessions, we work out the details and reduce to writing the marital settlement agreement, spousal support (if any), parenting plans and child support calculations.
Also if requested we may assist the parties with the completion of the required Florida Supreme Court Forms for filing the divorce case with the courts.
The total costs of our services are disclosed up front and so there are no fee surprises at the end.

 
 

Monday September 6, 2010


Providing dispute resolution services to the businesses and residents of Pasco County,West Pasco, East Pasco, New Port Richey, Port Richey, Wesley Chapel, New Tampa, Zephyrhills, Dade City, San Ann, Saint Leo, Land O'Lakes, Odessa and the Tampa Bay area Florida.
Contact us: 27212 Foamflower Blvd., Wesley Chapel, FL 33544. (813) 907-8961

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